reimagining the future together with our kids
reimagining the future together with our kids
I'm Amanda.
I'm exploring ways for parents and kids to reimagine and co-create a regenerative and thriving world together.
What an extraordinary time to be alive! We are living in a time, a decade, that will be the most crucial and defining moment in human history. As parents we face the stark reality that the future our children are stepping into is unknown. What we do know is that they are likely to witness the 6th mass extinction and food scarcity in their lifetime. I sense, however, through the chaos and crisis something else is on the rise for humanity. This is our opportunity for a (r)evolution... an evolution in consciousness... and the birthing of a new era for humanity. I believe we are on the verge of regenerative transformation because we have to be and necessity is the mother of invention.
It's time to assume our roles as eco-guardians and be part of (re)writing a new human story and future for our kids.
Wunderman Thompson report 2018.
In August 2021 we learnt the latest scientific assessment on climate change published within the IPCC report and, according to the UN Chief, we are now in a CODE RED for humanity. We are heading for the tipping points of planetary boundaries and towards Hothouse earth.
I'm on a pragmatic journey to the learn the facts and what we as parents can do about it. Last September, I began a Masters of Regenerative Action to learn the latest science from researchers and change makers around the globe. I want to take part in solution driven conversations that result in transformative change within our homes and develop solutions that help children and families become empowered change makers too. From my own life circumstances, I developed the "CreativeEco+EQ Play" theory that I feel is critical for rapid and widespread societal change. As mentioned above, I believe that creativity, emotional intelligence and playfulness are the key in the shift towards a thriving future for our kids.
As parents the greatest thing we can do, on behalf of our children, is to demonstrate resilience through current and future trauma and crisis and show that there is great opportunity for growth and renewal. We can embrace this crisis and see it as just the beginning (birthing) of the next human evolution. We can start to take action and move towards a deeper and more meaningful existence together as a human family. Our challenge is to simplify life and our rate of consumption but the complexities of doing so takes a very uncomfortable acceptance that the capitalist and consumer driven lives we have been immersed in have been detrimental to the well-being of the planet and the future of our children. Our ultimate challenge is to make the choice to turn towards more conscious, mindful and radically different lifestyles. We've heard this all before but how do we; live without the use of fossil fuels? Consume foods we know come from regenerative agriculture and fishing practices? Wear clothes that support the communities and environment in which they're made? And, purchase products that are regenerative in their design and part of a circular economy? How do we create new economies where we choose to share assets and resources - not own them? The answer to all these questions lies in our hands.
We are the first generations to witness and see in great detail the devastating impact of our extractive "growth" economies and with that comes a very uncomfortable realisation of the extent to which our lives need to change. The material wealth, status and ownership we have valued (and were taught to strive for) is quickly becoming the antithesis of what an abundant thriving future for our children looks like. We have unknowingly been blindsided by the status quo of ownership and material wealth and extracting more from our life support system, planet Earth, than it can provide. Together we need to learn how to untangle ourselves from these social trends and beliefs and grant the highest respect of social status to those demonstrating a commitment to future generations of humanity and the planet.
A new metrics for status instead of money - a measurement demonstrating our regenerative actions and contribution to our fellow humans and planet... and as a byproduct, how fulfilled, contented and happy we are becoming - In other words, what Abraham Maslow calls "self actualisation" and becoming "fully human".
I sense that our generation was born for this moment along with the children we have brought into the world. As the parents of school aged children, and as we reach the middle of our working careers and peak-earning potential, I believe that we have the responsibility (whether we like it or not) to come together, stand up and lead this change. We can (and have to) pave the way for our children.
We can parent the future and step into the greatest demonstration of human potential.
One of the most helpful things we can do is to share resources, ideas and come together in solidarity and celebrate our collaborative efforts.
I sense through my own experiences that there is a calling on the natural ability of women and mothers to finds ways to hold the emotional space and compassionate circles of care for the anxiety and trauma that will arise through this era of transformation.
Creativity, emotional intelligence & playfulness are key to activating mass cultural and systemic change; enabling regenerative and circular economies and ensuring a thriving planet for future generations. With a collective vision, determined action and radical optimism the future we dream of will become our reality.
Over the last 20 years I've developed an educational approach and framework called CreativeEco+EQ Play to help put this theory into practice. I first started exploring this theory during postgraduate research at RMIT Melbourne in 2004 and then a PhD at the Glasgow School of Art in 2008. However, it was only after becoming a parent that the learning really began. My three kids and I have learnt how to rethink and reimagine a completely new life together which has meant breaking away from the status quo.
The kids have been an absolute inspiration in their creative expression, emotional intelligence and playfulness. Much of the content developed for The Creative Rise programmes (myMIMO and EarthPunks) comes from their stories, solutions and creative genius. It has been exciting to witness how, if they are given the support, skills and tools, our children can develop a strong sense of self and identity
CreativeEQ+Eco Play is inspired by Abraham Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and the Human Potential Movement. The aim of the solutions I've developed is to provide holistic learning experiences which: encourage children to reimagine and explore alternative and healthier ways to live (shelter, eat, dress, move); to find ways in which they enjoy creatively expressing themselves; and seek opportunities to connect with each other and nature in meaningful ways. In Maslow's words, to become "fully human" through the process of Self Actualisation.
The ultimate goal of The Creative Rise is to help children unite in a collective vision and to empower them, amplify their voices and give them the agency to enable the changes they want to see within their own lives, in their schools and communities... and, as they step into adulthood, the confidence to influence systemic change and realise their regenerative vision together globally (North & South.)
For more information visit www.thecreativerise.com
Perhaps the answer to activating significant systemic and cultural change is the idea of falling in love with the very idea of it and yearning for the possibilities that lie ahead?
Falling in-love?...
This idea came to me when I heard Paul Hawken say "we need to help our children fall in-love with the climate." It made me wonder "What if we all fell in love with the climate?... and with nature? and with our own true nature? Our own humanity... as part of nature?" The only thing that truly unifies us is our humanness. What if we fell in love with our humanness? Would this activate our greatest human potential collectively? Or, as the late Barbara Marx Hubbard says "our social potential and an evolution in consciousness." Anodea Judith speaks of this time as a Great Awakening and "our collective initiation from the love of power to the power of love."
When we fall in love, we fall not just for the "other" person but with ourselves in the eyes of the other person. A reflection of the best version of ourselves. We fall in love with the greatest potential of ourselves, our lover and the possibility of experiences and dreams for the future that lies before us. When we fall in love we generally become more self expressive, playful, generous, caring and open hearted... Imagine what we would be capable of if we fell in love with nature, the climate, each other and ourselves.
Imagine the vitality that would bring to our own lives and life on earth.
It's time to deconstruct the old stories which have disconnected us from each other and nature and to dream up and fall in love with a new future story for our children to step into. One that embraces vulnerability and the courage to speak truth to power. One that is written from, and inspired by, the heart. This is the most liberating, empowering, and deeply meaningful way to unite in crisis with a sense of love and belonging rather than with fear, dismay, judgement, jealousy and a fight.
My research and work explores these possibilities and how we might start to step into that reality.
Marianne Williamson
There are deeply uncomfortable "truths" about our life that echo through western society - mainly that the abuse and accumulation of power, money, sex and status have been held in greater value and importance than anything else. And, that love, compassion, connection to others and connection to our life source (earth) have been secondary considerations (if at all) to our own "success", our perception of social status and financial gain.
I have made conscious decisions to remove myself and my children from toxic narratives, personalities and a lifestyle infused with pathological mistruths and falsehoods. The consequences have been profound (and at times meant living in extreme poverty) but redesigning life on our own terms is liberating, empowering... and an ongoing process (or adventure?)
I feel a sense of duty to speak the truth to these narratives that we are all born into in western society. On behalf of other women and mothers who experience abuse in all forms - psychological, emotional and/or physical. Women who experience gaslighting and question their own sanity and feel the pressure to remain silent or risk condemnation, isolation and being ostracised.
Like a fish in water, we are born into these narratives but when life challenges us and we start to "see" the truth we have a duty and responsibility to be the voice and agents of change for something new, compassionate and loving.
What I know to be true is that the less I own, the less I need and the more freedom I have to explore my greatest potential and my sense of purpose becomes clearer. I have become closer to my children, my beloved friends and the ground beneath my feet... This, to me, is happiness. I believe that seeking the greatest potential within us is the most impactful thing we could do and not just for ourselves but for our children, humanity and the planet.
For the sake of our children, and the generations to follow, I believe we need to have the courage to voice and face the most challenging truths and shadows of the human experience - to transmute them into something truly positive and constructive - in a conscious attempt to relieve our children of the burden of generational and ancestral trauma that does not belong to them.
To step into a NEW story and allow an evolution in consciousness to unfold.
I see my life now, as a solo parent with the kids, as a fractal of the larger human story and predicament. It started with a crisis that woke us up and helped us see the beauty of what is truly, humanly, possible.
BARBARA MARX HUBBARD
The research and work within this website has been (and is) a labour of love. I have developed these ideas and initiated these projects while being on furlough, social benefits and while juggling my role as a mum. I'm not alone in this scenario and have seen women in the same situation creating charities and social enterprises to initiate change and support their local communities.
I share this because I want to promote the idea of a Universal Basic Income (UBI) and celebrate the care and generousity economies.
I feel its important to highlight that I have witnessed others who when provided the time and basic resources (housing, food, utilities) they have had the space to consider how they want to contribute to their community as a whole. Nurturing little humans is demanding enough yet through the exhaustion and busy schedules these mothers naturally begin to step into service for others in their communities.
These women have little or no expectation for recognition yet our entire society is dependent on this care and generousity. I believe that when we start to recognise and reward these efforts fairly we will see a significant rise in mental health and well-being in our mothers which would have a profound ripple effect that will benefit our children, families and our communities at large - strengthening and maintaining the heart of resilient and adaptable communities.
These generous hearted and caring souls are my inspiration.
JOSEPH CAMPBELL
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